Friday, September 6, 2013

Proverbs - Disciplining Your Children and Teens

Proverbs 19:18

Chasten thy son while there is hope,
and let not thy soul spare for his crying.


To discipline our children is to love them.  We must not listen to their responses and change the course of our decisions because of their crying or complaining.  There is hope for our children while we have the opportunity to guide and order the standards by which they live up to.  We must take full advantage of this and make decisions based on prayerful consideration of what the Lord is leading us to do to train them in the way that they should go.  We must not change course because of their whining or how difficult it may be for us to keep them on this path.  God has put us in charge and all authority has been given by God.   We will lead them in ways they will not naturally choose and this is the way it is supposed to be.  If they knew what they were to do, God would not have given parental authority.  Stand strong, young mother and endure the crying of your child if you know you are implementing good discipline to produce character.  Stand strong, mother of that teen, and remember your time of parental guidance is coming to a close, use this time to lift up the standard in love and don’t grow weary of their reasoning and resistance.  Our soul must be guarded from the responses of our children so that we don’t give up on what the Lord has told us to do.  Let us chasten our children while there is hope and realize that they will thank us when they are older.

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