Proverbs 14:3
In the mouth
of the foolish is a rod of pride:
but
the lips of the wise shall preserve them.
The Lord warns us earlier in this
chapter that the foolish woman will tear down her home with her own hands. Whether
we are a woman or a man, in this verse we see that when we speak foolishly we
have PRIDE at the very core of our motivation.
Words can tear down a house, a marriage, a parent-child
relationship. We must remember that
words are very powerful. They can bring
life and they can bring death. When our
words are foolish and they are rooted in some sort of self-focus. When we are focused on self, we are not aware
of others’ needs and feelings. For some
reason, the rod of pride banishes the interests and feelings of others.
This rod of pride is stubborn and
judgmental. It is swung with disregard
to all those in its path. Ladies, the
Lord wants our lips to speak wise things.
Wise words grace all those who hear them. Wise words are rooted in love and concern for
honoring God and loving others. When we
are wise our words will preserve us.
They will protect us from unnecessary conflict. These wise words will nurture our
relationships and preserve them from decay.
When we find words that are strong in
judgment and harsh in delivery, we should stop, perhaps go into the restroom or
backyard and confess the rod of pride.
Ask the Lord for humility and meekness.
Wisdom is associated with meekness and consideration. When words are wise they don’t have to prove
themselves right. They ARE right. Lord, give us the ability to stop in the
midst of foolish words and confess self-focus.
Help us have a meekness about us that seeks to build up our homes and
consider others as more important than ourselves. In Jesus’ name. Amen
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